Saturday, 31 December 2011

2011 in Pictures & Thank you's too.

Yet another year has passed us by and I just wanted to say Thank you for reading & being the best Blog Fam! Without further ado, Here's 2011 in Pictures!

Jan: Pregnant approx 25 weeks

Feb: Nesting begins

March: So Ready for bean to come. Extreme Nesting continues!

April: Royal Wedding Celebrated in Hospital

E than having his first feed - Love at first sight.

May: Exhausted but Happy

June: Father's Day can you say 'awww'?

August: E sat up at 17weeks. Love that cheeky smile!

Sept: Holiday!

We Moved house !

October: Autumn! 


November: Children in Need 2011

December: Christmas is upon us!


Here's to another glorious year! Even though DH & I are stuck indoors, We'll be ringing in the New Year in style. I'm making my famous Seafood Spaghetti & We're having some Pink Champagne. We'll be watching Jools Holland. Good Food + Good Music + Family = A Great Time!


HAPPY NEW YEAR!!



At Home with my Poorly Boy...

E casually asleep across my belly!
So Wednesday AM was really scary! I was awoken at about 3am by E screeching and nothing would settle him. I then noticed he was shallow breathing quite rapidly. I called NHS Direct and while on the phone, I noticed his ribs where being sucked in with each rapid breath. I relayed that to the Nurse on the phone and she advised us to take him straight to A&E.
On the way there, He was drowsy and I couldn't get him to stay awake! By the time we got there and the Paed Nurse saw us his temperature had spiked to 38 degrees celsius.  She asked us to take off his sleepsuit and we replaced it with a bodysuit and he was given some Calpol. Thankfully his oxygen levels were okay. We saw the paediatrician and she checked his ears and throat, They were fine. She then listened to his chest and said he had Bronchiolitis. Since it is viral, there is nothing we can do. His immune system has to fight it. I on the other hand have become rather anal about checking his temperature and his breathing!

Since he is infectious, We can't go anywhere where children might be so he doesn't spread it. So we have been home since then (actually since boxing day)
On Thursday, I had a bit of cabin fever setting in but I'm settling in now. He is off his food so he is nursing lots. One of the times I'm so grateful for 'mummy milk'. As a very active baby, It is rare for E to cuddle me for longer than 10 mins so I've been treasuring the lazy days where he won't get off my lap.

Today we watched Praise Baby, Elmo's World & The Christmas episode of Don't Tell The Bride. We played with bubbles,then we napped for 3 hours. Now that's rare! He began to get fractious at about 5pm so I ran a bath with Lavender &  Eucalyptus and that seemed to mellow him out.

I hope he gets better soon and he is my smiley Mr E again. In the meantime I guess it's a quiet New Year's Eve for us!

Friday, 30 December 2011

Why our household is Boycotting Nestle.

I had heard of the boycott Nestle campaign but I never knew WHY. I looked on the BabyMilk Action website and saw this paragraph I have quoted below & realised that if we all did our part then maybe we can make Nestle change its wicked ways.

"Baby Milk Action’s focus is ‘protection’. We work for products to be marketed appropriately and that is to protect both breastfeeding and babies fed on formula. 
The protection we have achieved for mothers and carers who use formula is real and it is a bit disappointing to have our hard work in this area dismissed with a ‘glance’ at our website. However, I have learned to take comfort from knowing that we are helping mothers and babies, however they feed, whether we get thanked for it or not.
For example, if it was not for the work we have done with our partners at the European Union, the Codex Alimentarius Commission and elsewhere, the limits on the levels of pesticides in formula would be higher than currently permitted, inappropriate ingredients would be more common and marketing even more bogus and aggressive.
To take a for instance: Nestlé has tried several times to break into the UK market. The last time it did so was by launching a product called Nan HA, which is promoted as hypoallergenic. Nestlé was stopped from calling it ‘hypoallergenic’ in the United States and Canada after parents fed it to babies with cow’s milk allergy when it is unsuitable for this purpose - babies have suffered anaphylactic shock as a result. Hypoallergenic is a health claim and should not be used. We raised concerns about this when Nestlé launched the product in the UK and Nestlé was required by the Department of Health to add warning stickers to lids saying it should not be fed to babies with a known cow’s milk allergy. Health workers generally advise that allergic babies who are not being breastfed should use a fully hydrolysed formula. Soya formula can be used, but only on medical advice, due to other concerns about the safety of soya formula.
Guardian: May 2007
Now, people can be as cynical about Baby Milk Action as they like, but that piece of work to ensure that babies who needed it received fully hydrolysed formula or soya formula rather than Nestlé’s unsuitable product was not anti-formula. It was focused on what is always our primary focus: the well being of babies and the right of their mothers, carers and health workers to accurate information. "

"What makes Nestlé take notice is a hit to its profits and public image. Our job is to increase the pressure and exposure to force movement - which has happened time and again. We will eventually stop the ‘protect’ logos we are calling on Nestlé to remove from its formula labels. But the executives try all they can to divert criticism and have a big budget to link their name with good causes, so people look on them favourably. Nestlé has also tried to improve its image by launching a Fairtrade KitKat. This involves just 1% of the cocoa Nestlé purchases. At the same time, it has failed to deliver on a promise made in 2001 to stop child slavery in its cocoa supply chain within 5 years (by 2006). Campaigners in the US have taken Nestlé to court on behalf of children who were trafficked to farms supplying the company. There are also concerns over the source of palm oil in Nestlé products and the destruction of Indonesian rainforests to produce it. This was targeted in a Greenpeace campaign this year and Nestlé has said it will change its suppliers of palm oil - within 5 years.The more people who boycott Nestlé and tell the people who run the company, the more influence we have."

I have copied over from the website, The bits that moved me. I believe it is an issue that needs addressing. I for one believe in the power of the consumer. We are boycotting Nestle & all companies they profit from from New Years Eve.

For more info please see babymilkaction.org

Tuesday, 27 December 2011

Letter to my Bean : You're 8 months.

Yum! I like this Wrapping Paper Malarky.
My Darling Son,

Yet another month has rolled on by. It is hard to explain what it feels like watching you grow up.  More than ever this month seemed to want to prove to me that time waits for no one. You look and act more grown up than the previous month. I suppose it is true what they say, Children do indeed grow everyday.  I'm so honoured to have be chosen to be your mumma. You Ethan are a very special boy. I'm not saying this coz I'm your mum, It is something I feel very intensely. You seem to possess this intuition, put together with your expressive eyes and you have me thinking you understand more than I think you do.

Like the other day we were watching Elf and at the scene where Michael Finch dives across the table to beat up poor Buddy, You burst out crying! You were maybe scared but I notice that if someone's upset you get upset too. Baby, keep that empathy you possess. Don't let life harden your heart, Don't be ashamed or frightened of your emotions.

So this month saw your first Christmas go by. I thank God you were here to share it with us. You made it that bit more special.

Skills you've learnt this month:
 * You can now sit down from standing! Yippee!
* You can also kneel
* You understand the sign for 'Milk' ( You giggle)
* You have 4 teeth now! You got your 2 front teeth for Christmas!

New Words:
* BeeBEE = Boobie


Love,

Mama
x





Sunday, 25 December 2011

Lilbean's 1st Christmas!


Merry Christmas! Ethan's first christmas is more or less over and it has been a great day! I hope yours has been great too!

Christmas Elf

Spiced Cookies




O Come Let Us Adore Him!


Stockings hung

His Outfit laid out for Church on Christmas morning.

Spiced Loaf - Not Just for Christmas!

ooo Tree!

E & his custom Weenotions Nappy 

A Gift from his Nana - Teething Powders in bulk!

Well Roasted Duck ...mmm

Christmas Dinner!






                                              Merry Christmas from My family to yours!



Saturday, 24 December 2011

On Christmas Eve...

Today was a weird day in a good way, I couldn't sleep last night so DH let me sleep in till 9.30am! Then we had a great breakfast, and watched Elf!  I baked my first spiced Loaf - pics coming later. Then DH let me open one present early, It was from Santa! It was - Glee Karaoke Revolution vol 2 on the Wii! I was so happy I screamed causing my sensitive bubba to burst into tears! Poor Bubs. Tomorrow is church but for now we are relaxing and trying hard to contain our excitement because --- It's Christmas!


The Night Before Christmas


'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house

Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;

The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,

In hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there;

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,

While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;

And mamma in her 'kerchief, and I in my cap,

Had just settled down for a long winter's nap,

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,

I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.

Away to the window I flew like a flash,

Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow

Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below,

When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,

But a miniature sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer,

With a little old driver, so lively and quick,

I knew in a moment it must be St. Nick.

More rapid than eagles his coursers they came,

And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name;

"Now, Dasher! now, Dancer! now, Prancer and Vixen!

On, Comet! on Cupid! on, Donder and Blitzen!

To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!

Now dash away! dash away! dash away all!"

As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,

When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky,

So up to the house-top the coursers they flew,

With the sleigh full of toys, and St. Nicholas too.

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof

The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.

As I drew in my head, and was turning around,

Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,

And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot;

A bundle of toys he had flung on his back,

And he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.

His eyes -- how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!

His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!

His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,

And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow;

The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth,

And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath;

He had a broad face and a little round belly,

That shook, when he laughed like a bowlful of jelly.

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf,

And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself;

A wink of his eye and a twist of his head,

Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread;

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work,

And filled all the stockings; then turned with a jerk,

And laying his finger aside of his nose,

And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose;

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,

And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.

But I heard him exclaim, ere he drove out of sight,
"Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good-night."










Friday, 16 December 2011

Advent Update

I'm so sorry I haven't kept up with my advent thing. Much like the real deal, I forget about it and over indulge on Christmas day! I will end it with one more. This two carols are really special to me. Today has been a really tough day. I've been struggling with my best friends being so far away and missing having that security blanket. The world of mummy friends is harder to break into if you don't already have your girlies. I'm the only one of them to have a child which makes E really pampered but on a day to day basis, I don't really fit in with the mums I see daily. The mums I'm closest too are sadly too far away & mostly virtual ( britmums, twitter, facebook) Anyways I had a tough time today at Costa trying to wee/have lunch/ feed Ethan and it would have been lovely if I went with another pair of hands. So by the time my hubby got home I was feeling rather low. He made me a cuppa & warmed me a mincepie. Thanks hun.

Then I had the best bedtime with E. Usually, he is eager to sleep after DH gives him his bath and usually demands his feed. But tonight like he knew mummy needed a pick me up he didnt fall asleep instantly. He was stroking my face during the feed and looked like he needed a song or two. I sang Silent Night & O Holy Night to him and my baby fell asleep.

I felt better after that.
Needed.
Yes that's the word. I'm going to treasure that moment forever.

So without further ado enjoy and hug your babies for me coz they are amazing!

Silent Night



O Holy Night





Monday, 12 December 2011

One Year being Natural!

It's been a year since I took the plunge!

This is my journey through year one:



I'm so glad I did!

Tuesday, 6 December 2011

I Was One of The Lucky Ones

Tonight more than ever, I am so grateful to still be here on earth mothering my bubba and being with my hubby. I learnt from Facebook & Twitter about yet another passing of a young, talented woman due to haemorrhaging after her c-section.  

I was so sad to learn of it and felt so much for her family. The thing is I usually moan about how hard done by I was with my c-section taking forever to heal. 6 months to be exact. How I was cheated out of the birth I wanted. How my body isn't the same - I have an apron now. The thing is all things considered, My c-section wasn't too bad and I came out feeling positive about the birth.

I don't have a right to feel begrudged. I will take this anyday just so I can see Ethan grow up, have my cuddles with him, Grow old with my darling. Michal doesn't have that and that breaks my heart.

Will I do everything in my power to avoid another c-section? absolutely. Will I gripe about my c-section scar? probably. But the think that I shall take away is that I am alive today.

For that I am thankful.






Sunday, 4 December 2011

Going down memory lane: Sharing the secret about my lil'bean

Ok so Ethan isn't that old yet but today I was reminiscing about our Journey together and I just had to blog about it. You know how easy it is to float down memory lane especially with a stack of old photos in your hands. We made our first collage as a family this weekend and doing so We had to pick out 10 photos to go in the frame and rooting through them got me thinking of how we came to be a family of 3.

The excitement we felt when we learnt about our baby and how it felt telling our family. Makes me smile thinking about how excited they were. Especially the mums.

The day before I prepped their surprises.





I had my camera at the ready and said "Go!" and I was able to capture their reactions.








 This is what they were looking at:



It was a great day.


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